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What Type of Girlfriend Are You Quiz

1. I often think that …

  • A. I am not accepted for WHO I am.
  • B. To get, I must GIVE. To be loved, I must be needed.
  • C. I am rewarded for what I DO, not for who I AM.
  • D. I lost my original connections, I feel ABANDONED.
  • E. The world demands too much from me, I feel DEPLETED.
  • F. The world is unpredictable and hazardous, thus I CAN`T trust others.
  • G. The world LIMITS me, frustrates me, and causes me pain that I want to avoid.
  • H. The world is UNJUST. The powerful take advantage of the weak.
  • I. The world requires me to BLEND in.

2. I place a lot of value on …

  • A. Getting things right.
  • B. Creating good feelings on others.
  • C. Achieving recognition for my accomplishments.
  • D. Finding love, meaning and fulfillment.
  • E. Maintaining sufficient privacy, boundaries and limits.
  • F. Figuring things out through logical analysis.
  • G. Enjoying and experiencing life to the fullest.
  • H. Protecting the weak and innocent.
  • I. Being sensitive to others and pleasing them instead of myself.

3. If I`m to be honest, I think I …

  • A. Gain love and self-regard by doing things the correct way.
  • B. Feel fulfilled when I give others what they need and want.
  • C. Get love and approval by working hard to be the best.
  • D. Search for an ideal love to make me feel loved, whole and complete.
  • E. Am private and self-sufficient, it protects me from intrusive demands.
  • F. Am doubtful, vigilant, and always questioning.
  • G. Like to engage in pleasurable activities and imagine fascinating possibilities in the future.
  • H. Impose my own truth and hide my vulnerability to protect myself and others.
  • I. Forget myself and merge with others.

4. I pay a LOT of attention on …

  • A. Right and wrong, and what should be corrected.
  • B. The needs and wants of the people I care about.
  • C. Everything that has to be done — tasks, goals, and future achievements.
  • D. What is positive and attractive about the future and the past.
  • E. The intellectual domain. Facts. Analysis. Compartmentalized thinking.
  • F. What could go wrong or be hazardous.
  • G. Interesting, pleasurable and fascinating ideas, plans, options and projects.
  • H. Power and control.
  • I. Others` agendas, requests and demands.

5. I feel MOST fulfilled when I`m …

  • A. Doing things the correct way.
  • B. Giving others what they need and want.
  • C. Working hard to be the BEST and achieving success.
  • D. Expressing myself and creating DEEP connection.
  • E. Learning ALL there is to know about a subject.
  • F. Dedicating myself to worthy and often underdog causes.
  • G. Using my active imagination.
  • H. Gaining respect by being STRONG and JUST.
  • I. Keeping life comfortable and familiar.

6. I tend to …

  • A. Come across as overly critical and demanding perfection.
  • B. End up caring more for others than taking care of myself.
  • C. Have more to do than will fit into the time available.
  • D. Want what I can´t have and disdain what I DO have.
  • E. Enjoy experiences I´ve had MORE when reliving them than when actually going through them.
  • F. Avoid danger or challenge it head-on.
  • G. Shift my attention to more pleasant ideas if something gets me down.
  • H. Approach things in an all-or-nothing way, especially issues that matter to me.
  • I. Get distracted and then get off task on the important things I`m trying to do.

7. I think my greatest STRENGTH is …

  • A. Being a keeper of high standard
  • B. Being generous
  • C. Leadership
  • D. Sensitivity
  • E. Being knowledgeable
  • F. Trustworthiness
  • G. Inventiveness
  • H. Protectiveness
  • I. Emphathy

8. I do everything I can to AVOID …

  • A. Making mistakes.
  • B. Disappointing others.
  • C. Failing to achieve my goals.
  • D. Feeling that I don´t measure up.
  • E. Feeling inadequate and empty.
  • F. Alienating people I depend on or contradicting or opposing them.
  • G. Boredom. Painful situations or feelings.
  • H. Being weak or dependent.
  • I. Conflict and confrontation.

9. I get stressed when …

  • A. My internal critic causes me anxiety and worry.
  • B. So many people and projects need me.
  • C. There´s an impending failure.
  • D. I envy what others have that I don´t have.
  • E. I`m trying to know everything there is to know before taking action.
  • F. I have to deal with uncertainty and insecurity.
  • G. I`m overloaded from trying to sample all that life has to offer.
  • H. I`m unable to correct injustice.
  • I. I have to say “No” to someone and that someone gets angry.

10. My biggest stumbling block in relationships is the belief that …

  • A. I must be god/right to be worthy of love.
  • B. I am loved and approved based on what I give.
  • C. Love and recognition comes from doing, not from being.
  • D. I must BE (and find) the ultimate ideal in order to be loved.
  • E. I must protect myself from depletion in a world that takes too much and gives too little.
  • F. I must gain certainty and security in a very uncertain world.
  • G. To ensure a good life I must keep my spirits up and avoid pain and suffering.
  • H. I must be strong and powerful to ensure protection and worth.
  • I. To be valued and loved, I must blend in and go along to get along.

11. I get angry and defensive when …

  • A. I am unjustly criticized.
  • B. I feel unappreciated and uncared for.
  • C. Someone or something threatens or thwarts the successful achievement of my goals.
  • D. People disappoint me, let me down, or leave me.
  • E. I am being considered factually incorrect.
  • F. I feel cornered, controlled or pressured.
  • G. People who are stuck, unhappy, depressed, or inclined to blame others, try to drag me down.
  • H. Others are not responding to me or to what has to be done.
  • I. I am treated as NOT important.

Quiz Results:

Identify your first and second highest results, then look up those two personality types to identify which personality type describes you better.

Mostly A – Type 1: The Perfectionist

Mostly B – Type 2: The Giver

Mostly C – Type 3: The Achiever

Mostly D – Type 4: The Romantic

Mostly E – Type 5: The Observer

Mostly F – Type 6: The Loyalist

Mostly G – Type 7: The Adventurer

Mostly H – Type 8: The Leader

Mostly I – Type 9: The Peacemaker